Anal Lubes
22 02 10 - 16:46 by
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Wetter is Better
With the many brands and effects of lubes offered out there, the perfect anal lube is not going to be an easy find unless you honestly know what you're looking for. The silkiest, the wettest, the slipperiest, water based, oil based, antibacterial, edible, scented, unscented, and so on are all options. It's likely best to conduct a little research first as well as being honest about the desires of you and your partner. Some like it wet, some don't- sometimes it could be as simple as that!
Lube Them Up
The buzz is that wetter is better, so choose wisely as it may take many brands before you truly decide. Encourage your partner to communicate to you what they like or don't like. After you have your sessions of yummy fucking and sucking and all has quieted down, cuddle and open up some basic conversation such as what did you like best or least about this time? Be sure and encourage them if they are slow to respond, start out by saying things like, "I liked it very much when you put your finger over my ass just as I was cumming!", saying things in a positive way will place emphasis on those things as they will have been confirmed as something that was truly enjoyed. Things that are not mentioned will already have been identified as things you didn't like as much simply by them not being mentioned at all. Yet if it happens again in the next fucking or lovemaking session, be sure and start out with on the positive, mention what you would like to see less of, and mention another positive to end on a positive note. Positive reinforcement will likely get you better results. Using anal sex toys such as anal dildos, vibrators or anal beads are also can be enjoyable for making your lover get ready for anal sessions. Be sure that your lubes are compatible with materials of your sex toys.
